Friday, June 16, 2017

18-20 Month Update









 


18-20 months

Wow...

In just 4 months I'm going to have a TWO year old. 

But each month brings something new. I am really enjoying her age right now. She is so fun, and funny. And her imagination seems to be developing even more because she is starting to play by herself and make her animals & people "talk" and walk.

But this age seems to be challenging as well. It seems like she is just trying to figure out how life works and she pushes her boundaries. Often. Although she has her share of meltdowns and whines, she does understand that no means no. And that’s the end of the story. Of course this will make her upset and cry but after she gets over it she won’t come back to it or if she does she will “no no” haha ohh..toddlers…



Weight: 27 lbs


Height: For some reason her doctor didn’t measure her height the last time we were there. 








Hair Color: Blonde, very blonde. And it is growing! I am able to do the tiniest little ponytail now!




Diaper Size: Size 5. Even though they are big, I rather her wear bigger diapers.








Clothes Size: 18-24 months. 24 months is a little big on her. But for the summer months I am buying 24 months in case she has a growth spurt!







Eats: Picky, picky, picky. I have learned that if I just put her plate in front of her and basically ignore her. She will eat everything. But the second I try and help, she's done and wants nothing to do with food....
Current favorites: Pancakes, fruit, peas, chicken, quinoa, green beans(I call them green French fries...works every time), hummus, yogurt, cheese and crackers. She still eats almost everything. But has her days where she won't eat much.
Least favorite foods: Spaghetti...what child doesn't like spaghetti?! Mine. I've tried multiple times and she just plays with it and spits it out. She actually doesn't care for noodles in general. Rice is also another thing she doesn't like. And she won't eat meat unless it has ketchup or bbq sauce on it.

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Stay tuned for an extra special post on how we like to make meal time more fun!


Personality: I hope one day this girl is an actress because she is so dramatic and can go from one mood to the next in a second. But most of the time she is a big sweetheart, and is pretty silly as well. She's constantly doing things to make us laugh. Like the other day she kept “falling” off of her little ride on car because we kept saying “oh no! Ellie you poor girl!” She loves to do things that really get our attention and she makes sure we are watching her. She is also momma’s little helper and shadow. She wants to see everything I’m doing and help in her own way. When I’m folding clothes, I’ll look over and see that she is trying to fold too. (oh my heart!) Or if I say I need to clean and vacuum, she runs over pulls all of her toys out because that’s what I do and grabs her vacuum.


Words: She is now to the point of trying to say small sentences and putting words together. It's pretty surprising when she will say "I want drink" or "Thank you Mama" We have please and Thank you down pretty well. She is so polite and always asks please and says thank you when needed. She will even make sure she tells ME to say Thank you to her...
The more words she learns, the more demanding she has gotten. It's nice knowing that she can now tell me what she wants. But at the same time she will get frustrated if she can't have what she is asking for. I guess she just doesn't quite understand that she doesn't get everything she says. 
Her most favorite is “why”
She will want us to explain EVERYTHING to her. Sometimes I get a little annoyed, but I know she is just a curious little thing and wants to learn.
But seriously….why “why” already?!

Favorite Activities& Toys: Anything that involves being outside. This girl will grab her sunglasses, hat, and tell me to put on her shoes because she has had enough of being inside. So outside she loves to push her baby in the stroller, play with chalk, bubbles, run freely, play at the park, and I could go on and on. 

Since it is finally warm we let her play in a baby pool at my parents’ house and she loved it. We certainly have a water baby! I think she played in it for an hour. Completely content.
Inside she still loves her kitchen and will cook for me. And make me coffee....this girl knows the way to her mama's heart. She takes care of all of her babies and kitty cats by feeding them. She really loves any toy that captures her interest in that moment. She is also obsessed with her Little People Barn. She loves all of the animals and will sing E-I-E-I-O pretty much all day.


In just a few short months we will be celebrating her second birthday. I’m already in the process of planning and I CANT WAIT! Since I’m doing it a theme of one of her favorite things, I know she’s going to love it.

Tuesday, May 23, 2017

Hope Anchors The Soul

Did you know May is Postpartum Depression & Anxiety month?

It's taking me a lot to publish this post. This is something I have had written up and saved until I felt like it was the right time. But with May being Postpartum Depression & Anxiety Awareness month, I felt like it was a good time. I feel like no one really talks about it because when you are a new mom you are flooded with so many emotions. Which is completely normal. What isn't normal is that you can't seem to pull yourself out of those emotions or are having really bad thoughts.
Fortunately I didn't deal with severe Postpartum depression, but the postpartum anxiety part is what got to me. And unfortunately it STILL gets to me. Most people will say it's not classified "Postpartum" after your baby turns a year. But I have to disagree. As your baby grows and enters new stages, you will always have so many emotions and it might bring out fears. Which can turn into anxiety and sometimes depression. For me, I keep all of my emotions bottled up so no one can tell how I'm feeling. Not that I want to hide them, I am just the type of person who rather not talk about things. Which is a no-no. If you are a new mom, please don't avoid talking about your feelings. You just went through SO much and it's okay to feel down. And it's okay to seek out help. Most moms are put up on a pedestal and we are supposed to be so strong and the glue that holds everything together.....ummm that's way to much for one person to take on. Especially a first time mom. No wonder so many moms deal with some kind of depression or anxiety because we are wired to think we have to live up to certain standards. 

I can remember the first few weeks I could not hold in tears. I would just look at my daughter and start crying. No reason, just happened. Being a new mom you really are just thrown in motherhood and there isn't an exact guideline as to what will happen and how you will feel. 
Of course this is such an exciting time and you shouldn't be worried about developing depression or anxiety (because that will ruin your excitement) I honestly didn't even think about any of that happening, especially I didn't think it would happen to me. When I was pregnant I barely dealt with crazy hormones and I was pretty calm. But then I went through labor, delivery, and recovery. Which at the time I didn't think anything of it, even though it was really hard on me physically and mentally. But through that I developed postpartum anxiety. I was constantly anxious and fearful. I always felt tense in every situation. It effected a lot, and I was always in a constant state of worry.  I have so many supportive and caring people, but it took a long time to talk about how I felt, or ask for help. Because I felt like I should be able to handle it on my own. 
I can't quite explain how or when I started to come out of it, but the more open I was with my husband and close friends, the better I started to feel. 
For every new mom out there. I want you to know that there is always hope. Seek it out. Ask for help. Don't bottle your emotions. And you aren't in this alone. You may feel alone, but I can promise you, you are not. Don't feel embarrassed or ashamed because you feel like you can't handle being a mom. Because you can handle it. You just have to believe in yourself. 


Mom life is tough, but I have found who I want to be, being her mom. She is my hope that anchors my soul. 











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Ellie's ruffle bow: Glow623

Thursday, May 11, 2017

Why I'm A Terrible Friend

Because I have child...
I'm a first time mom...

Those are valid excuses right? 

If you agree then you are probably a mom/dad/understanding person. If you disagree than you might not be one of those. Before I became a mom, I'll be honest I probably wouldn't have understood. 
 Before you become a parent your mind is pretty free. Not saying people who don't have children have nothing to think about but when you become a parent your mind is filled with so many things, all at once. Which is something I did not expect at all. All of your thoughts are meeting your child's needs. Before anything and anyone else. 

So to all of my friends/family, I apologize. I know I can be a crappy friend/daughter/sister/aunt...etc. But my child and husband come first, even before me. So my thoughts aren't always about others. Which I know sounds completely terrible. But I'm still learning how to juggle mom life. 

Should I even make an excuse for being a crappy friend? No. I really don't need to explain why or how I've changed since I've become a mom. But I wanted to because I know there are some soon to be moms/new moms out there that will go through this. And I'm here to tell you, it's okay to feel like you are a crappy friend.  Your friends and family WILL understand and even if they don't, they will do their best to. And I wish someone told me how this part of my life would change. 


For example, if I haven't reached out to you in months, it's not that I don't think about you. Because I can promise you I do think about all of my close friends but the moment I go to send a text, my daughter needs me and I completely forget who I was about to reach out to. Sounds silly but I really don't like being on my phone (except to take cute pictures and videos of her) when I'm with her just because I always want her to have my full attention. And she usually will yell and act up if she sees me on my phone. So if I haven't gotten back to you, she's why. 

Sometimes I make plans with friends. But sometimes I have to cancel. If I ever cancel plans, it's not because I want to or just don't feel like it, it's because she's having an off day and it's more important to meet her needs than to stress her out by taking her somewhere. 

And sometimes, I just want to spend time with just her. Selfish? Maybe. But these days fly by and she is growing right before my eyes so I just always want to be with her. 



They say having a baby changes everything, but don't let it change you.
Well yes, having a baby changes everything.
And becoming a mom DOES change who you are. And there isn't anything wrong with that. Don't let people stress you out by saying "Oh well you've changed since you had your daughter/son" and just tell them, yes I have changed. Because I am a mom now.
Don't worry, these changes are all positive, hard at times. But worth everything.  
It's something that has taking me a lot of time to come to terms with. 
I have a lot of good friends in my life that are always there for me and I can't say enough how much I appreciate them.



 






"Find your tribe, love them hard"

Friday, May 5, 2017

What To Expect When You Have A Toddler

Through researching every single thing when I was pregnant, to checking each week my daughter's growth and milestones...toddlerhood has it's own category and I really don't think there can even be enough information on toddlers since they are growing into their own little person, it's hard to quite figure out how to adjust life with a toddler. Here are some things to expect when your baby reaches toddlerhood. 


1. Your food, your husband's food, grandparent's food, stranger's at a restaurant food, and etc... will now mean free game to your curious little one. Once they get the taste of the good stuff. There's no stopping them. (unless for some reason you have a picky eater, which is ok!) They will want to try EVERYTHING. and you also can't hide their foods they love. Seriously they will find it and just know it's in the pantry, in the snack basket, behind all the boxes. Oh and good luck trying to eat anything different because your little one will want what you have and will refuse what is on their plate. 

2. They will test your limits as far as they can, and just when they have you to a breaking point, they test you one step further. This is because they are learning all about their boundaries. They are figuring out what they can and cannot do. Which can be pretty frustrating for them (and you) but this is why at such an early age it's best to be consistent with rules. Because the moment you give in, it is going to be 10x harder to reinforce that rule. Setting rules and boundaries are really hard at first because it will be upsetting knowing you are the reason your little one is angry. But give it time and soon they will learn that some things are off limits. Before my daughter was one, we started explaining to her "why" things are no-no, to be gentle (because I hate when I see children hit so this was a very important one), and don't touch just look.


3. Emotions. You thought you had some crazy emotions while you were pregnant? Well when you step into toddlerhood with your baby. Be prepared to go through every emotion, within seconds. This kind of goes hand in hand with the boundaries because they are learning how to control their emotions when they aren't allowed to do something. I have found that when my daughter gets angry and frustrated I get down to her level and let her explain to me what is wrong. Usually this helps her calm down enough and I think she realizes it's not worth getting angry over. But I also want her to know that it is okay to show emotions. I show my emotions all the time. Why shouldn't she?! She just needs guidance on what is acceptable and what isn't.

Toddlers are very unpredictable little people, but you shouldn't fear a toddler. With good parenting and a lot of love you will be amazed how much your little one with grow. If you ask me I will always say I miss my daughter being a newborn, but I am really loving her age right now because she learns something new every single day. And her personality just keeps shining through. Here are few surprising things to expect when raising a toddler.

1. Each day is a new adventure. Think about it...you are still so unfamiliar with life and how everything works. So the moment you wake up you are in learning mode and ready to see what the day brings. Your toddler will look at life with such wonder and amazement. Take advantage of that to show them everything that you are doing. And incorporate some of their favorite things, as well as new things each day. Toddlers are like sponges and they take every thing in.

2. You will have a little shadow. Everything you do, they want to do and/or help with. I always ask my daughter if she wants to help momma, and she always responds with yes. From putting away laundry, cleaning her toys, vacuuming, and etc. She is always right there helping me. But remember when your little helper helps, they will most likely do things in their own way and the best they can. Don't scold them because they put away laundry in the wrong drawer (or unfolded everything you just folded), or tell them they did something wrong. Because most likely they won't want to help anymore because they don't feel valued. My dresser drawers are full of unfolded clothes and a few random items because my little helper was so proud she helped momma. And that means more to me than wrinkled clothes.

3.
Be prepared for so much love. Once your toddler understands what it means to hug and give kisses. You are will have sneak attacks when they just run up to you and want to hug and kiss you. My daughter always does this at such random times but I cherish every single time. No matter if I'm busy doing something I make sure I stop, and let her show her love. It is heart melting every single time. It is also another way to let them know it's okay to show how they are feeling at any moment.

4. Be prepared for so many laughs. Toddlers are little comedians. Seriously where do they come up with their ideas?? Every day I find myself laughing so hard at some of things she does or says. And what is even more funny is that she will laugh at herself. The classic giggle loop and it is quite possibly one of my favorite things. Seeing her happy makes me so happy.

These are just a few things to expect when you have a toddler. There is SO much more and I could probably list about 10 more things. But I think I covered the main ones. Do you have any tips or even a story about your toddler? I'd love to hear!

Thursday, April 6, 2017

A Dream Come True


I have probably said this a million times, but I have always wanted a daughter. Of course I would always be happy with a boy but I just felt like in my heart I would have girls...might be because I grew up with all brothers and just can't stand the thought of being in a house full of boys...KIDDING! (kind of) but I can't quite explain how I feel except that having a daughter(s) just makes sense to me. 
Well I couldn't explain it, until now. 

The moment I found out I was pregnant I was so ecstatic and just wanted a healthy baby...deep down I really wanted a girl. But it was more than that, I just knew I was having a girl. 
Before we found out what we were having, anytime someone would say "I think it's a boy" I would just smile on the outside but on the inside I just wanted to say "you're wrong" but I couldn't because I didn't want to be wrong! All I could think of was girl names, and I was always drawn to the girl's clothes.

When the day finally came that we would find out for sure if we were having a boy or a girl, I was back to my I don't really care, I just want my baby healthy. As soon as my husband and I opened the envelope and I saw the word "Girl" I just squealed and cried. My dreams were finally coming true. I couldn't wait to meet MY daughter. 
The day we met our baby girl, face to face, was one of the best days of my life. And also I finally figured out why I wanted a girl so badly. 



You see it's so much more than all the pink, bows, and glitter. It's getting to relive my childhood all over again, through her. I get to show her how to play dress up, have tea parties, play momma and take care of her babies, teach her ballet, let her help me cook and bake, and go on adventures. All the things I did when I was little with my mom, I want to do with her. 
I may have a daughter, but I also have a best friend for life. And I want her to know that I'll always be there for her. 
Even when she thinks she is "too grown up" to need her mom. 
















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Friday, March 24, 2017

16-17 Months- Update

16-17 months



You came into our lives sooner then expected, but God knew we needed your sweet spirit, bright smile, and big heart.
Every day with you is my favorite, good or bad. On the good days we play and have adventures, and on bad days, I just hold you and let you know it's okay to have bad days.
























Weight: 24 lbs. I'm sure that's right on track for her age.


Height: Still not sure of this. But she is definitely taller!






Hair Color: Blonde, very blonde.  




Diaper Size: Size 4!






Clothes Size: 12-18 months. She's like right in between because 12 month fits perfect. But I keep buying her 18 months and up because I know she will be in 18-24 months clothes soon.



Eats: Three meals a day, plus a snack before bedtime. She gets one bottle a day which is right before bedtime. She still loves food, but can be picky at times. I try not to give into her being picky because I want her to always have a well rounded diet.
Current favorites: Fruit, she can't get enough of fruit. Chicken is her favorite meat. And I recently introduced her to quinoa and she is hooked!
Least favorite foods: She has been so picky about vegetables, but I still put them on her plate. If I don't make it a point for her to eat them. She will eat them all...toddler logic... 

Personality: Ellie is like a sour patch kid, first she's sour, then she is so sweet that I forget how sour she can be! She has such a big personality that I think she is trying to learn just how to handle it, which can be very hard for a little one. Most of the time she

Words: This is the biggest change since my last update. She keeps surprising us with all of the words she knows. And will sometimes say them if we ask her too. I'd list them but I can't even remember everything she is saying now. Her favorite word is "please" and seriously she can have whatever she wants when she says it.  She doesn't speak in full sentences yet. But she will babble and throw in words that she knows. So I assume sentences will be coming in the next couple months or so.

Favorite Activities & Toys: This is still the same as the last update. She is starting to be more into creative play. And she will make animal sounds or try to make conversations with her little people sets. It's so cute!

This girl has the mom life down. She will clean, feed her babies, put them night night, cook and bake. We also "shop" a lot. And of course her babies have to all be piled into the shopping cart. I put all of her play food up on the TV stand and couches and she goes and puts them into her shopping cart. It is so neat to watch her play since she is starting to be imaginative.



I can't wait for summer so we can be outside more. She LOVES to be outside. Like runs to the door, and will say "side, PLEASE!" So of course we have to go outside. We will take evening walks when it's nice out. And this has been one of my favorite things because she will hold my hand, and we just will walk and talk <3 I have no idea what she is saying half the time but I love those special times with her. I feel like she is telling me all about her day, so I tell her about mine too.




Tuesday, March 14, 2017

HelloFresh Review

I'm about to be real honest here. 

I hate dinner time. 
Of course I have always loved cooking. But when you have a toddler who requires your undivided attention when you get home from work. Things can get tricky. Some days she is content playing in the kitchen while I cook. But other days, she's at my feet whining and wanting me to hold her. I don't blame her because I know she missed me all day. So to help with the dinner time stress, my husband and I decided to give HelloFresh a try. 
And here is our thoughts.
We have received two boxes, so this is the first one we tried.


Have you heard of HelloFresh? Most people have by now because meal delivery services are becoming quite popular. I mean who doesn't want meals delivered to their door..already planned out for them? And all you have to do is prepare and cook it. Amazing and so simple. HelloFresh is a weekly meal delivery system. You can choose you meals you like from 6 recipes. And you can choose either for 2-4 or family plan. It's so simple to navigate so their site is extremely user friendly. Also, if you don't want to get deliveries every week. You can skip as many weeks as you would like to. Cost wise it can be pricey, but that depends on what your food budget is.
We get a shipment once a month, sometimes twice depending on if we want to try a recipe.

So now to the food, because that's what you are really waiting for aren't you?

When you get your box, it contains the three meals (or however many you choose) and everything is packaged so well. We plan on shipment to be delivered on a day my husband is home so it doesn't sit outside. So I can't say for sure if the food stays cold, but it usually is cold when we receive it.

All of the ingredients are fresh and organic, which I love. My main goal is feeding my family healthy and nutritious meals, that also taste good. 






Everything is already measured out for you. So there is no measuring. Just washing and preparing. The first meal we tried was the Balsamic Chicken Rustico. This was probably one of my favorites. And it took about 30-40 minutes to make. 
The instructions are really easy to follow (plus they use pictures as well) 



The portions in my opinion are pretty big, and with a toddler we can get three meals out of them for her. She loved this one too. 


Next was the Ginger Beef Stir Fry.
I'm not a beef person, I'll eat it but I can't say it's one of my favorites. BUT I did really enjoy this recipe. So much better than take out! I'd make this one again, but maybe with chicken. 


Lastly, the Feisty Shrimp Linguine. 
Okay, this one was just okay to me. I braved making this all on my own with a clingy toddler so it didn't turn out as near as good as it could. I overcooked the noodles and the sauce. So I think if I didn't do that it would have been better. I omitted the red pepper flakes because I don't like anything spicy. 



My husband really liked all of them. 
But he loves food so much that it takes a pretty gross meal for him not to like it. 
He cooked some meals and I cooked others, and we both agreed that how easy and simple the instructions are is definitely what makes us love HelloFresh. 

Have you tried HelloFresh? Follow this link to get a discount off of your first box!www.hellofresh.com/?c=TJQJTU 


If you have tried it, what did you think?!